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Light as a freakin’ feather.
Oh my god. I feel like I haven’t a care in the world right now. Tim finally agreed to the custody arrangement…which means, we agree on everything. Everything. So we just have to sign in front of a notary and we can file jointly, making everything way less expensive and less time-consuming. That’s saying something since we’ve been apart since July. I am so relieved. I was so stressed and worried I was going to have to be the biggest bitch and get a lawyer and waste all that money. SIIIIGH, yes. This is perfect. Then after we sign,file, and pay, it’s just a 4 month waiting game for it to be finalized. I have tears in my eyes. It’s finally happening. It’s not a bloody battle anymore, sure he is still hurt and sour but it’s not hateful and a war. Mutual understanding. Willingness to work together as much as possible. I knew he would come around soon enough, and he would finally be reasonable.
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Oh Fuck my life.
My husband won’t stop trying to get me back even though I don’t love him, and he insists that I do love him and I am just trying to suppress this feeling because I’ll feel weak if I give in and let him back in my life. That just pisses me off. Don’t tell me how I feel, you don’t know how I feel…actually…he should know how I feel because I tell him almost everyday. I don’t love him. It was his actions that led me to not love him anymore. I can’t get past it. Yes, the past is past…but I cannot forget it. He will always be “that man” to me. We cannot start fresh.
He won’t give up. Ever. and that kills me. I just want to start over and move on. Live and love my life without him. I’m hoping counseling will help him see that it’s ok to just let go, and that I’m not crazy. ugh.
